Tuesday, April 14, 2015

The Not-So-Smooth Landing

It has been just over a week since our feet landed safely on Ethiopian ground, and given the visa drama that unfolded in the days leading up to our departure, I assure you we haven't yet stopped thanking God for allowing us to be back.

That doesn't mean, however, we are walking with elation on cloud nine. On the contrary, we seem to be very slow in getting into the routines we need to bring order to our world. On the one hand, there is a sense of "Whew, after four months in the States, we are finally in our own space," but the explosion of our allotted NINE suitcases in our tiny living room overwhelms any feeling of having settled.



This "little" pile goes down country,
This "little"pile stays here.
This "little" pile has medicines
For our guts, my nose, your ears.
And this little child goes "Wee, wee, wee, I don't care that its 1am, I'm done sleeping and it's time to play!"




Yes, jet lag has had its way with us this time. The first night Grace and Micah were bouncing off the walls from 11:30pm-3:30am. The second night it was 10:30pm-1:30am, and so on. Micah finally slept through the night on Night #4 but Grace delayed her first until night #6. Lumi has done the best, which  maybe is to be expected, since baby time isn’t yet ordered around the sun as much as ours is.
Woohoo, All night party!
It's funny to look back at what we bought and brought back with us each time we've been in America. We tend to bring way too much of one thing and maybe not enough of another. The first time we came over, in 2009, we brought way too many disposable razors, like, a 6+ year supply as I am still working on that original stash. In 2012, we loaded up on deodorant, which turned out to be wishful thinking that we might actually reinstate the habit of using it on a regular basis. This time, the mound of clothes, especially kids clothes, we brought back was a surprise to both Andrea and me. But then again, as kids grow so also must their clothes, and seeing all of Micah's clothes for the next two and half years (ages 4-7), it was quite a shock. Not only that, we are well set this time on M&Ms thanks to Andrea's mom and friends in Wisconsin (5 bags of mint, 2 bags of PB, 2 bags of peanut, 1 bag of almond, and one HUGE bag of plain). Oh and please, no one send us granola bars. Andrea found a ridiculous deal on granola bars at Pick 'n Save one day and she lost all control. No exaggeration, we smuggled 122 Nature's Valley granola bars into the country, all of which have expiration dates within 6-9 months. 
This is only a portion of them!
Adjusting back to life over here has brought some other challenges. Water and electricity cuts are frequent this time of year, and so we need to re-teach ourselves and our kids our various techniques of conservation. 
Buckets waiting for our water faucet to string to life.
The guests who stayed in our house while we were away apparently didn't take the water conservation course before coming and so they took it upon themselves to buy us another barrel. Except they bought a cheap barrel that is transparent to light. A quick lesson on photosynthesis with Micah and he understood perfectly well why that barrel's water was turning a nasty green color while the other one stayed clear. For our Saturday project, Micah then helped me double wrap a thick tarp around it to block the light.
Our truck seems to have weathered the last four months just fine, only to have a rude awakening. For the first FOUR times I got in and started it up, my left foot forgot to push in the clutch! Kachuck, kachuck! Finally, I grabbed a piece of paper and wrote myself a note. "STICK" 
So, now one week in, are we settled yet? Well if not, we better be soon as we have programs both this week and next. I can't say it was a very smooth landing, but we've landed nevertheless and in a pass-fail situation, we've certainly made the grade. On to the next adventure!

Sunday, April 12, 2015

Everyone Together Forever

Micah is by far the most emotional member of our family, or rather, the most expressive of the emotions he is feeling. His joys are contagious and his sorrows are heart-wrenching. We got to see both a number of times during our time in the States. Flying with poppa, playing with Sadie at Grandma and Grandpa's house, and tearing into mountains of Christmas presents, we all enjoyed his enjoyment.

But his sorrows, they came out with equal intensity, especially when it came to saying goodbyes. It seemed like wherever we were, the final loading of the van, or at least somewhere in the hours leading up to it, was always accompanied by tears of separation, "I just wanna stay at _______'s house forever." You fill in the blank, Peyton, Ellie, Tessa, Calvin, Ray, Audrey, Rachel, Grandma, Grandpa, Poppa, Sadie, even new friends like Justin, Paul, Nathan and Linsey…

I remember one incident during the last week of our time of in the States, I had the opportunity to hang out with my roommate and life-long friend from college. We shot pool together, we drank coffee, we talked about life until he finally delivered me home just as Micah was headed to bed. "Where were you?" Micah asked me in his footed PJs. "I was spending time with my friend Kenny." I responded, only to receive the question that follows most any statement these days, "Why?" To which I responded, "Because I have to say goodbye to my friend, Kenny, before we go to Ethiopia." His eyes locked with mine and I could see them filling up with tears as he felt full force that which I had, for some reason, learned to hold back.

Two weeks earlier, we had had a conversation about this sadness of saying goodbye. It came on the final day that we would be at my parents' house in Wisconsin. He had a lot to say that night, "I don't want to go to Michigan, I don't want to go to Ethiopia, I don't like leaving, why do we have to leave all the time? why can't we just stay here?" Bypassing the usual diversion tactics of pointing out the fun things that await us in our next location, I shot straight with him. "Micah, I really don't like leaving either. I don't like saying goodbye to people I love either. Frankly, I'm really tired of it. But do you know why we put ourselves through this? Because we love God and we love to Gmz people so much that we want the Gmz people, people like Thomas, Janey and Worku, to have access to God's Word in their own language. That is the ONLY reason that we are forcing ourselves to do this hard thing of leaving all the time." I was talking to myself as much as I was talking to my son.

More and more, the life we live seems a bit crazy. More and more, I find myself reaching out for stability and consistency. But it's not there, not yet. Maybe someday we can settle into living in just one house, being involved with just one church and one community. Maybe someday we will put down roots and stop the constant stream of goodbyes...but until then, his grace is sufficient.

On a number of occasions in the last month, Micah has made the comment, "I just wish that I could have all of my grandparents, all of my cousins and all of my friends in one place and then stay there forever." Oh Micah, that is not just wishful thinking, but rather the hope we have in Jesus. When the marriage supper of the Lamb brings our Gmz friends together with our friends and family back in the States in one eternal dwelling! No more tears, no more sorrow, no more goodbyes!


"For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all." – 2 Cor 4:17. 

Saturday, April 4, 2015

Breathing Fresh Air Again




We’re breathing fresh air again as Mr. Postman brought us our passports and visas with plenty of time to drive to Chicago and catch our flight this evening! Woohoo!

Friday, April 3, 2015

Where Am I?

It’s a very strange place to be indeed. On the eve of our departure for Ethiopia, I don't know whether I am more like Job about to lose a couple thousand sheep or like Shadrack about to be let out of the fire.

 

Some of you have received our knee-mails this week telling the "skinny" version of our tale of woes in securing a visa in time for tomorrow night's flight. I'll spare you ALL the details apart from this simple timeline.

1)      Our passports were in Los Angeles from March 13th onward.

2)      New regulations were brought to our attention March 24th, resolved on our side by March 27th.

3)      The visas were issued on Wednesday April 1, praise God we have permission to return to Ethiopia!

Except when I received the news of their approval, I wasn't at all happy. Why not? Well, we had sent in the passports with LOTS of time and therefore we provided only a Priority Mail envelope for returning, that is a 2 or 3 day delivery instead of the 1-day Priority Express. If mailed on Wednesday afternoon (April 1) they should arrive on Friday (April 3) or Saturday (April 4), with enough time to get to our 10:15pm flight on the evening of that Saturday. EXCEPT, when I was told Thursday morning that the envelope had been dropped in the drop box on Wednesday afternoon at 4:30pm and I HADN'T seen the tracking number hit the USPS website, I knew we were in trouble. And sure enough, that priority envelope sat irretrievably in that secure drop box for 24 hours until 5:40pm on Thursday, thus making the expected delivery to Michigan either Saturday (that's good, we make our flight!) or Monday (that's BAD!).

 

And so here I am, wearing out my mouse by refreshing the USPS tracking page way more than necessary, especially since I've signed up for both text and email tracking updates. Last I know is that it departed Los Angeles almost 17 hours ago. Where is it now? Only God knows. God allowed Job's sheep to be "burned up by fire from heaven" (Job 1:16), just as he MAY allow the airline we are flying to strike our pocketbook with a similar plague. Yet the same God of Scripture saw Shadrack and his buddies undergoing a major test and mercifully intervened so that they walked away unharmed. Which will it be? Tonight will tell…but either way, I've resolved in belief that God is God and he allows, plans, orchestrates, and intervenes only in ways he sees fit. And yet, quite perplexing to me, he asks us to make requests of him. And so that I do. I am asking God that my phone will soon ping me a text message announcing our passports/visas arrival in Michigan. If you are awake still tonight, will you make that request with me?